
Yesterday I had to fight against temptation. It was strong like hell and lasted more than an hour.
We all have to face temptation in this quest. It might be skipping training, doing an unplanned "cheat" meal, drinking beer or eating chocolate when we decided that we won't, etc.
In any kind of quest, once you've drawn your big plan and start following, you know you'll be faced by temptations.
So, before you start you have to think about what are you gonna do when temptation comes.
I propose you write a list. Here's mine:
AccountabilityIf you tell somebody about your plan, it might well be that you'll stick to it so that you don't have to tell to that someone that you failed. You really don't need to tell it to absolutely everybody, but if telling to everybody works better for you go for it.
Counting how many days in a row you've sticked to the planIt might sound silly, but if you count in a calendar how many days in a row you've sticked to the plan. You know that if you succumb to temptation the counter is gonna go back to zero. Plus it helps you to get in the "day by day" mentality.
Plan ahead your dayBefore going to sleep, review all the temptations you're gonna face the day after and see how you will avoid them. Maybe you can rearrange you day to make it easier.
NegotiateIf things get tough you might be forced to negotiate with the part of you that wants to give up. Of course, the plan is not negotiable. But, you can offer some other compensations that do not affect the plan.
Focus on the targetWhen faced with temptation, focus on the target. Think about the difference of fully achieving your target (even beyond your expectations) and getting very very far away from it.
The enemyThink of the voice that wants to give up as the enemy. Give it semi-human characteristics. So it is not that you're weak. The thing is that the enemy is strong. This is war! It's your enemy that wants you to lose. But you shall prevail. Go ahead and make it epic.
Remember the crab bucket story
One day I was walking along the Washington Beach, the black beach in Washington, North Carolina with my father. I was about eight years old. I noticed a man with a bucket of crabs. The crab bucket did not have a top on it. I asked my father why the crabs were not able to escape. My father’s explanation taught me a valuable lesson.
My father said, “If there was only one crab in the bucket it would certainly escape. However, when there is more than one crab in the bucket, if one tries to crawl out, the other crabs would grab hold and pull it back down so that it would share the same fate as the rest of them.”
This is true with people. If one person attempts to better himself, other people will attempt to drag him back down to share their fate. My father said, “ You must ignore the crabs if you want to be a success in life.
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Do you know crab people? Have you attempted to better yourself only to have family and friends to discourage you? Watch out for the crab syndrome.
Use the fact that your friends and family (the wants that should support you the most) are the ones that seem to want to see you failing. Don't get angry with them. Imagine that the voice ("the enemy") is also inside them trying to make you fail.
Optionally, if it works for you, resist temptation just to show that you're stronger than them.
"Absorb what is useful, reject what is useless, add what is specifically your own." -Bruce LeeTry up these things. Decide what works and what doesn't for you. Come up with your own ones. If you fall, stand up immediately and start again. Practice makes perfection.
Oh, yeah, I forgot. About yesterday... I was able to finally resist temptation.
Good luck to everyone.
BTW, what are your techniques to resist temptation? Do they work well to you? Leave a comment to let me know.
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